As much as we try to deny it, I believe that we all had dreams at some point in our lives. Some of us get to achieve them, while others put them aside for “reality”. I am a strong believer in setting goals and dreams for myself, and striving to…

On the 4th December of 2022, I (together with my younger brother) took part in the SCMS Half-Marathon event. It was our first ever half marathon and we were really excited for it! This is a review of my experience with the race. Hopefully, it will be useful information for…

Yet again another book summary. The following section is a copy of the cheatsheet provided by the author, with my slight editing of some of the details. Chapter 1. HPM, SBR, meet EDR HPM, SBR, and EDR are all frameworks for knowing how to respond to people. …

You got a fast car I want a ticket to anywhere Maybe we make a deal Maybe together we can get somewhere Any place is better Starting from zero got nothing to lose Maybe we’ll make something Me, myself, I got nothing to prove You got a fast car I…

Being in my 20s can be stressful at times. Sometimes, I can’t help but feel that I am running against a ticking clock. There are just so many things I feel that I have to achieve and complete before I turn 30. For example, I need to start investing in…

演唱 : 蔡健雅 作詞 : 蔡健雅 作曲 : 蔡健雅 專輯 : 說到愛 歌詞 : 這是一封離別信 寫下我該離開的原因 我在你生命中扮演的角色 太模糊了 你對我常忽冷忽熱 我到底是情人還是朋友 愛你是否不該太認真 That’s why I’m letting go 我終於捨得為你放開手 因為愛你愛到我心痛 但你卻不懂 I’m letting go 你對一切都軟弱與怠惰 讓人懷疑你是否愛過我 真的愛過我 為你再也找不到藉口 That’s when we should let it go 你是呼吸的空氣 脫離不了的地心引力 你在我生命中曾經是我 存在的原因 或許就像他們說 愛情只會讓人變愚蠢 自作多情愛的太天真 that’s why I’m letting go 我終於捨得為你放開手 因為愛你愛到我心痛 但你卻不懂 I’m letting go 你對一切都軟弱與怠惰 讓人懷疑你是否愛過我 真的愛過我

This is a summary of the key points mentioned in the book. Don’t follow your passion We are told to lionize those with the courage to follow their passion, and pity the conformist drones who cling to the safe path. We often hear advice about following your passion and chasing your dreams. However, in…

If you want to live a life you’ve never lived, you have to do things you’ve never done.

看过一句很扎心的话。当别人落难时，你拼了命的帮。自己落难时，别人拼了命的笑。得意时朋友们认识了你，落难时你从新认识了朋友。有时候我们总以为只要自己对别人真心，别人也会同样对待我们。可后来发现原来对他们来说我们并没那么重要。 不是所有人会珍惜我们的热情，也不是所有人都值得我们在乎。你时时刻刻想着别人，别人却不一定挂念着你。你总是在乎别人的感受，但别人却不在乎你。 我们越是为别人考虑，越放低自己的姿态，别人越不把我们当回事。当我们的真心与热情得不到回应时，记得把精力放到自己身上。 在这世上，没有多少事值得你委屈自己。善良需要有尺度，心软需要有限度。你可以体谅别人的苦衷，但不能委屈自己。再善良也要顾及自己的感受，别事事都迁就别人。在这个世界上，你自己才是最珍贵的。记得要多顾及自己一点。往后余生，学会爱自己。不再为谁付出，不在为谁哭泣。没有人值得你如此。也希望你可以不顾闲言碎语，成为更好的自己。 人生就是无数的遇见与离别。每一次相遇能为你带来欢乐与幸福。每一次离别也总能引人潸然泪下。这一辈子，我们会遇见型型色色的人。有人不远万里向我们奔来，也有人短暂相处后匆匆离去。余生不复见。我们总是为了一些人的离开而伤心遗憾，却不知人与人之间的关系就一个字缘。缘起则聚，缘尽则散。我们遇见的每一个人，他的离去早已注定。想和谁一直在一起，那是不可能的。聊得来的，多聊几句，也许就成为一生的好友。聊不来的，平淡相处就做个普通朋友。不必要浪费精力去讨好谁。这世上每个人不可能都成为你的朋友。